Today I saw hundreds of birds swarming over the Bay, flying in opposing directions. Their chaos seeming like a feathered battle – Should we stay or should we go? And farther down the road, I watched neon yellow leaves fall from a long band of proud trees finally giving way to the cold. It felt as if the world was in slow motion as they floated down and paved the road before me. Golden snow. Winter landing late in California…

If you want, do.

My plain and simple rules to dating

For women:  If a man likes you, he will call you. If he doesn’t call you, another man will.

And for men:  If she repeatedly doesn’t answer when you call, call someone else.

The best kept secrets are 80 proof…

Preparing is caring.

A relationship should be comfortable… that doesn’t mean that it should be spent sitting on the couch.

Those who are uninterested are also often uninteresting.

Passion cannot exist without vulnerability.

No need to go fishing when your swimming.

Coffee shops are for working. Offices are for distractions.